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I’m mere weeks away from one of the largest painting projects ever accomplished in a weekends’ time! Many of you wrote to me and suggested neighborhoods and cities across America that needed a new coat of paint, a proverbial makeover of a downtown section of a town.

Weeks after the last submission was reviewed, I selected Belleville, Illinois, a city full of beautiful people outside of St. Louis, MO, on the Illinois side of the Missouri River. This city is nearly 200 years old and boasts the longest Main Street in all of America. We’re going to set out to find enough volunteers to help me and The Home Depot to paint 15 blocks of their Main Street, treating each participating building to beautiful new coats of Glidden Exterior paints and all the trim that goes with it! This is no easy task and we’re hoping for thousands of volunteers in the Belleville area to help us on October 16th and 17th. This is the same city that has thousands of volunteers come together to help with their Art On The Square weekend, where hundreds of artists come to their city square and sell their art, one of the nations’ largest outdoor art shows. I like Belleville because of their community spirit, and their people, and like so many great cities in America, the sense of pride that you feel as you visit with people in town. We could go to so many cities with the cans of paint, and Ryobi Power Sprayers, 3M Blue Tape and DAP Caulking, but this city has so many buildings with so much character and in need of our attention and efforts.

Last year, I led a group of people to help me in a city in the Seattle area, Port Orchard, and it’s likely I’ll recover from this weekend and do it again in 2011 with The Home Depot.

Watch our progress with new postings right here, and you may be inspired to take this on yourself!

Click here for tips and tools from The Home Depot to start your own painting projects

If you've listened to my show for any length of time, you know I am like the old woman who lives in a shoe with so many kids I don't know what to do. Three of my 10 children came to me thru birth, the rest came to me thru adoption, some when they were very young and some as adults.

Three of my adopted kids are siblings that came to me thru foster care and that's why my foundation, Point Hope, is so passionate about foster care and getting kids out of the system and into permanency. My kids would've been far better off to have been left with their biological mother, who, though she had issues, loved them dearly. But they weren't.

They were passed from home to home where they were abused and starved and horrible things happened to them. By the time I got them out of foster care they were so broken that it has taken a whole lot of patience and a whole lot of love for God to put their hearts back together again. But they are healing and doing a lot better.

If you have the space in your home and your heart and you desire to adopt a child, look into foster care. Give a child a sense of belonging and love. These kids are our future, don't forget that. They are precious and yet so often they are tossed aside. If you would like to learn more about Point Hope and how we endeavor to be a voice for forgotten children, go to my Web site www.PointHope.org and check us out. Even if you don't have room for a child in your home, you can still help a child.
Delilah's Dilemma

My best friend in the world has come to be a friend of my son too. I am 47 yrs old; my friend is 24 and mature beyond his years. The dilemma is my son doesn't understand and neither does anyone else! To add to the problem we have developed feelings beyond friendship. I have grown to admire and respect this young man. I don't want to lose this person from my life and I definitely don't want to alienate my children or family. My friend has been there for me in every situation. He has seen me at my worst and continues to care for me anyway. He is a true friend. Do I trust my instincts and continue the friendship and see where it goes? Or do I end it now before we both get hurt and hurt others in our lives? Ellen

My Advice:

If you were a man who was 47 and he was a woman of 24, you would be a hero, but somehow when the tables are turned, it becomes taboo. And that's crazy. The thing I want to focus on is the fact that he's seen you at your worst but remains a true friend. That to me sounds like the foundation of an amazing relationship. Nobody gets to decide who you love, nobody. You both have to go into this with eyes wide open. You have to talk thru important things like his expectations of having children in the future. If you do those things, then it doesn't matter what anyone says. What matters is the respect and love you have for each other. Delilah

Dilemma
Every night, Delilah reads your dilemmas and chooses one to answer on the air.
Delilah, the syndicated radio host who dominates the evening hours on the airwaves, embraced radio when she was a middle-schooler in Reedsport, Oregon, reporting school news and sports on KDUN-AM 1030...